My two cents about TRUST
September 19, 2007
My 2 cents about TRUST
I am not talking about that condom and I won’t advice you to use that kind anyway. It won’t work. haha
So what about trust?
Trust is always the key to a lasting relationship. If I knew it back then, I would have been still part of coupledomhood today but I didn’t really thought of that until things were already too late. I never had trust on anyone. I was too much engrossed with doubts and the feeling of fulfillment when “I was right all along”.
I was so keen with lies and deceits probably because I was deceived a lot of times with my past. I was always on a relationship wherein I was always keeping my guard thus, neglecting a lot of things and losing a lot as well. I was never happy at all.
Why am I writing about this? It’s because I have encountered once again a paranoid girlfriend. I don’t know her that much but I know her boyfriend. I know her boyfriend too well that I know why she acted that way. She loves him too much.
Trust… I had that once, inconsistently undeniably once… I was learning to have it along the way and when I had it… he was already gone.
It’s not bad having an untrustworthy boyfriend. It’s not wrong to doubt at all. What’s wrong is when you doubt too much and you choke him too much. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you get full control of him, that you should know everything he’s doing, that you should take away his privacy. Respect one’s individuality. If you have doubts ask him. Communicate and express certain things bothering the relationship. Save the relationship instead of ruining it. If he loves you and if he’s true, in time he’ll tell you all about. He’ll learn to be transparent. Don’t rush.
…just my 2 cents
A love without trust is not love at all. It’s called selfishness.
Thanks!,
haha! cool manang oi! kahilak ko ug tears! –>>see ya sa lib!
comment by manang — September 19, 2007 @ 1:50 pm